Snowy Sundays.

I’m a firm believer that Saturdays are for adventures and Sundays are for snuggles. But I’m also a firm believer that Sundays are for adventures, too. There are a lot of hours in a day and no reason you can’t have both.

I may go as far as to say that growing up in Southern California, I was spoiled when it came to weather. Most of the year was clear and sunny, and it rained so little that I even looked forward to those days.

The hardest thing for me living in North Carolina has been adjusting to the weather. In a single week I watched the temperature go from 80 to 74 to 55 to 33. Drastic!

Adulthood has not been easy since moving here, but I’ve definitely learned ways around it. You have to do what makes you happy. Figure out what that is, and do it as much as you can. At 26 I’m still learning what that is, and what it means. I’m still learning how to allow myself to be happy and not feel guilty about focusing on that over responsibilities.

As ready as I am for sunny days, camping trips, BBQs, and taking my dogs to the lake, I’m also still doing my best not to take the chilly days for granted. I’ve only been lucky enough to see snow actually fall a handful of times in my life, and I can’t deny part of me is in love with seeing it.

After romping around in minimal snow, catching flurries on my coat, and watching my dogs roll around in mud, it was time for the lazy part of my weekend. I compiled a small list of songs that have improved my mood lately, and nothing compares to music that makes you feel good and movement that makes you feel even better.

Sunday jams.

A little stretching—you don’t know how much your body appreciates a good stretch-session until you really dedicate some time to stretch it out. I hold a lot of stress in my shoulders and my back, and the weight that feels lifted after doin’ some flexibility work is incredible.

And of course, what lazy, snowy day is complete without fresh baked cookies and milk? Say what you want about calories— fresh, gooey, moist chocolate chip cookies are worth it. Sit down with a glass of cold milk, a soft blanket, and some simple entertainment.

Do something worthwhile for yourself today. Do more of what makes your heart happy. Take a nap, write a book, get a tattoo, watch your favorite movie for the 100th time. Today is yours, treat yourself to it.

How do you spend Sundays in your world? Are you a lazy Sundayer or a Sunday adventurer? Tell me how you treat yo’ self.

xo

Medicine for the soul.

It’s strange that you can love one thing growing up and into adulthood end up loathing it. Sometimes it’s gradual, and sometimes it’s like you woke up one day and flipped a switch—click, changed forever.

Growing up in Southern California, I looked forward to rain. Overcast skies, a chill, and having an excuse to spend all day inside. But after I got married and moved the first time, that changed. I always had an adventurous heart, but moving halfway across the country really seemed to jostle that loose.


Rainy days make me anxious to drive in. Rainy days mean hiking is a pain in the ass if attempted. Though it hasn’t always stopped me before, winter on the east coast for me means a lot of rain and a lot of indoors. If it wasn’t raining, it was just too cold. Even on a hike when your body has warmed and you’ve got layers on, 15° is still cold.

However, one of the perks of being forced to relax at home during winter is that it makes you spend more time on things you maybe wouldn’t have otherwise. I chose to catch up on some blogs I enjoy reading, and I found the perfect post for my winter blues. This post by the lovely Kaetlyn inspired me to reassess the way I’ve been reacting to this winter and make a shift: more things that make me happy and less things that just get me through the motions of living—work, sleep, repeat. Sometimes you need to jump-start your life again, give it a kick. It’s important to find the things that make you feel rejuvinated when you become despondent, and bask in them.

I make a point to do my makeup and hair more often, even if I’m staying at home. It makes me feel good physically, which makes me feel good mentally and emotionally. Self-love is a hard game to play but putting in a little extra work certainly doesn’t hurt my chances of winning.

I try to enjoy the little things while I can. Today was my first Sunday off in 2 months, I work every Saturday, and it isn’t often my husband has a Monday off. So I relished in finally being able to sleep in together without any commitment to getting up and going anywhere I had to be. I made us a sweet treat, I made him coffee, and I breathed in the quiet of my house before everything became motion.

 
I use what days I can to check off a little more of my localized bucket list. Take a dog, bundle up, brave gray skies and wind. Since my last post I’ve explored 2 new places I wanted to go but hadn’t, and both exceeded expectation.

Jordan Lake—Apex, NC

  

Lake Waccamaw—Bolton, NC

 

I’ve been working on taking better care of my health, my hair, and my skin. I’m burning gasoline and making memories. I’m curing my winter blues with whatever makes my heart happy.

What helps you cure your blues? What rejuvenates you?

xo